Should I Come Clean About My Old Sexual and Financial Betrayals?

The second indiscretion involved my theft of a few thousand dollars (over the course of two years or so) from my employer by getting kickbacks from a vendor. He would overcharge my employer and give me a percentage of the invoice amount. There were many reasons I stole this money. We were ‘‘keeping up with the Joneses’’ in a wealthy community and were constantly cash-strapped; our kids were in college. The company I worked for regularly ‘‘bought’’ sales by providing lavish entertainment, cash and prostitutes. There’s no excuse for what I did, but I think I was somehow of the mind that stealing from them wasn’t the same as stealing from a church or an individual.