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After high school, a friend I was very close to drifted away. Should I seek closure from her?

高中毕业后,我很亲密的一个朋友渐渐疏远了我。我应该向她寻求了结吗?

‘There are lots of ways to get closure that don’t involve reaching out, and there are ways of reaching out that don’t end in closure,’ writes Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Painting: A Street in Brittany by Stanhope Alexander Forbes.

‘There are lots of ways to get closure that don’t involve reaching out, and there are ways of reaching out that don’t end in closure,’ writes Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Painting: A Street in Brittany by Stanhope Alexander Forbes.

2026-02-05  772  中等
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We were really close from year 7 to year 12. The truth is I had a devastating crush on her. I told her about it one day; she let me down very sweetly and our friendship continued. She was the first (and so far only) person I’ve ever felt I loved. She’s the reason I identify as bi. And I believed for a few years she loved me too, if in a different way to how I hoped.

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