The ceremony was short and super sweet. We had a lovely registrar (she beamed throughout and said it was the most “joyful” ceremony she’d officiated), we played some of our fave and most appropriate songs, dancing into the room to Jackie Wilson’s (Your Love Keeps Lifting Me) Higher and Higher followed by Stevie Wonder’s I Believe (When I Fall In Love It Will Be Forever) and closing with Marvin Gaye’s How Sweet It is (To Be Loved By You). I was bucketing 30 years’ worth of tears when I made a speech and signed the book.